Sunday, April 4, 2010

Love.. (Expectation).. Life

On its day, there is no better teacher than Life.. Mmm.. Well, Life s much like a Poem.. Some sweetness always exist..

To be honest, We all Love.. Love here means all that you love.. We all Live.. Both cannot be planned.. Both differ only by a 'Letter'.. :). . But there are few subtle things that makes the difference much bigger than a 'Letter'...

There can be more reasons.. But one Parent reason that creates all the big difference is 'Expectation'.. Though expecting something out of everything has been a most common human tendency.. The most catching phrase on this note is 'Expectations are pretty high'...

As we walk along the beach soil, We expect a cool breeze.. As we walk with a friend, we expect a nice talk.. As we start praying, we expect things to unfold.. I can keep counting these examples..

To start with the caption .. Love..(Expectation)..Life .. Any form of relationship starts creating an interaction between Love and Life.. As such, Any form of Expectation can stop the interaction between Love and Life.. I mean, Expectations are more when it comes to relationships..

Relationships is the sweetest thing that can happen in Life.. It creates subtle emotions.. A honest smile.. A casual tear.. Delightful memories.. Cute fights.. short time breakups.. Relationship s one place which can give you any kind of emotion until it is kept alive.. A sweet friend.. Feel good Parents.. Dearest Sister.. Friendly Brother.. Kind Cousins.. All fall in line under the 'Relationships' tag..

Love can be of different forms.. but never it should be in an inconsistent form.. Love looks more premature when expectations start growing.. We go into anything with expectations.. When it is not met, we comeback with pains.. Its more true even with relationships.. It develops a hole between 'Love' and 'Life'.. The hole gets bigger as expectations keep growing..

Life can be never be a planned event.. Even Love s an instant feeling.. But 'Expectation' by its term, it gives a planned look.. You can never go into any relationship expecting something.. 'Even Love is not to be expected in return'.. You like and You Love..

Its more likely, we always wanted our near and dear ones to reciprocate something.. We love our own self.. But do we expect anythng in that??????? No never.. We don't expect anything from our own self.. We always try justifying our thoughts..

Mmm.. You might Love 100%.. but if You get back oly 50% of it.. You know, wat the other 50% is??? Its jus pain.. Bcoz, you expected a 100% love from the other end.. You love someone bcoz you found something special in them.. You don't get the same amount of Love back because You may not possess something special.. Actually You should be above the standards of your Loved ones for them to Love you more than wat you do.. You should possess something they don't.. We always search something that We don't have.. That keeps us interested..

We normally don't expect anythng from our Parent's.. They love us because they value as above their own life.. Maximum is offered there.. So, that love s always smooth..

Friendship is one where expectations keep mounting each day.. As long as we believe our friends share anythng and everythng wit us, they love us d maximum, friendship runs a smooth show.. But once we start expecting something more, then starts a difference.. We complain saying "You don't do what I asked".. or "I did not expect this from you"..

In Love.. Well, this s one place where expectation should be killed in before it begins.. Here is where v believe, v r d most loved by the other.. Once we start finding them more interested in something else, Our expectation is to take an importance above the other thing.. If not, V start complaining..

Love or Friendship, Expectations can get rooted because of Possessiveness... But Love and Life, both run hand in hand.. So when it breaks, there gets a void between Love and Life.. The basic reason for any break in relationship could be expectation.. Basically, we would have expected more love, little more care or some more time with us.,

Life in no means is a Business.. as is Love.. You cannot invest Love in Life for it to return you more.. We all love a flower.. But no one ever on Earth would ask the flower to Love them back.. We Love a flower even after mindful of the fact that flower cannot love you back.. Why can't the same law be applied in all our day to day relationships???????????

We Humans are so inconsistent in defining 'Love' or say 'Life'.. Every Love was taught a different meaning.. But all kinds of love can be broken with one weapon.. that is Expectation.. Mmm..

The cream in any Love is same.. We start defining 'Love'... But it is said, Love cannot be defined, because there is no alternative word.. So, Love is same with anyone.. Its jus that we make it different with our expectations and we define it accordingly.. From each one, the expectation is different..

For ex., If you expect your friend to call you once in a day, the same you expect your girl friend to call you 100times in a day.. :D .. Its jus that the expectations create the difference n d way v love.. that again changes d way v live with that respective person.. so, Life also changes according to Person..

Never allow your expectations to create a void between Love and Life..

There is no alternative word for 'Love' and 'Life'.. As you Love, As you Live..:)

Now, don't expect an ending.. because My Love and Life doesn't end here..

Love or Life is true, when you don't expect anything in return..

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