Possessive!!! What it does to relationships???

Is being Possessive a selfish attitude??? May be Yes, because, It restricts the relationship more than anything.. May be its a positive statement, when we make it to our friend or even its a special feeling when someone says, they are possessive on us..

But, to be honest, being possessive is not the best feeling.. Its a feeling which is more uni-dimensional.. It restricts more than it gives..

Personally, I believe " Its more selfish to be possessive, because we are not ready to share our friends with the world ".. Their goodness, their care, their love, whatever the best in them is restricted because of being possessive.. How cruel it is to restrict something good???

Good People spread happiness wherever they are..
Being Possessive misleads to tossing relationships, where ultimately one has to lose to someone without any reason..

Being Possessive!! Is t a fear of losing our intimate one to someone??? May be, but, We will only lose to someone superior.. Other way, we should be happy, because someone better than us is taking care of our Friend, so they are more safe now..
Friendship, more spiritual of Human relationships shall not be constrained by the term Possessive.. Rather, the term spoils the harmony of Friendship..

Never a Mother is Possessive on her kid.. But the kid knows who its Mother is!!! Such a kind of feeling is Friendship..

After all, Possessiveness can only hold things externally.. Its not a feeling from heart!!!

Friendship is a Win - Win feeling.. Here, no one should be a loser.. Tossing up relationships is just betraying one's own self..

A good friend is more like God.. Anybody can worship!!!
Let's not hold our friends with a price tag, called possessiveness..
Life gets more pleasure, as we keep adding friends.. Lets not stop what our close ones get..

Never a true friend will leave you..
After all, believing is more important in Friendships..
If you don't believe your Friend, there is no worth being with him..

True friends may not smile with u, but they will make sure that You don't cry..

Possessive!! what it does to relationships???
From My life, it will only spoil the blossoming of some good Friendships..

This blog in no form entertains an argument.. Its only a view from what my life gave me..